My mom, 26 years older than I, was Red Cross nurse and loved her career. It was perhaps happy so their work does not represent a high income. One day he made the mistake of falling in love, marry and conceive of, and then there came to her happiness. By poor decisions made in life devoted himself to the home and growing up, and dropped his exciting life in nursing. I never knew what the hell did my mom. If he was happy at work, there was no question of a license and be ready?, Maybe. However, he took his challenge and its consequences, but after that, his career change from nursing of by Housewife .
If I do not understand why there are women who have taken this kind of daring and suffering from a complex exchange of frustration at how their careers are truncated, marry and work as if they were opposites, and then tell their children to never commit the same mistake as them. Well, in my family, this case is repeated in several people and fortunately I have it very clear with the example of my mother.
Despite this, I do not understand why grandmothers still believe a woman should be prepared in life to have a home, children, family and a beautiful husband who serve. For them (or at least for me) the fact of not knowing how to make even a fried egg, I predicted the greatest of misfortunes, total bitterness and failure in marriage, should I have. A woman who can not serve your husband will be exchanged for another if you do . Sometimes said. I do not think you have of the reason.
No sir, the experience of my mother tells me it is totally wrong that women simply have to be dedicated entirely to home, so are lawyers, architects, doctors or anything. In my case, I'm hopeless at cooking and other chores, do not give me any concern. To achieve happiness, no need to know to make a red.
My entries to the kitchen are so sporadic and light. Often prefer things almost finished they sell, they venture to build a sophisticated and tasty dish because it did not develop enough talent to carry it out. Maybe my mom did not want me to learn much, because otherwise you could end up stuck there, raising 5 Chinese and sweeping the house at all times. I may not have chosen nursing as a way of life, but neither of housewife, and not just because they can defend in the complicated culinary work.
Reading this post character "of the girls I was never more sensitive, or the most cute, nor the most detailed. Oh god, almost hate the kitchen, I cook to avoid starvation, is the truth, and when I cook for someone, that happens every .... I do it with care but with an initial lazy giant " think I feel the same, so I realize now that is the most common world, and my grandmother's exploits currently do not have much effect.
Now, if my plans were to marry, the gentleman in question would have to know in advance that his future wife is not an ace in the kitchen, not the least interested in learning how to make a stew or the most bizarre recipe and is not willing to treat you as a king. If he, under these circumstances provides still married, you know what to expect but to get off the tag runs out.
Perhaps the concept of home has changed so that each time the roles are consolidated and shared by the couple. It's amazing to think that a successful life is limited to marriage and women attend to the man like a king, and so educated. No, married life now resembles, in my ideal - to a team in which both give and do their part, in which the two take turns home meals, grooming and everything else implies that the household. If not, gentlemen, is not my idea to get married to be the slave of another fool to leave my career or dumped to become a housewife , while he is engaged live your life and get home to you with the food served.
be by my uselessness in all these matters that I like men who like to cook, because I'm terrible in the kitchen, a certain part of our complementary. I like men and orderly household to know that when living with a woman, does not mean having a slave at his side pick up the mess they take the desayunito them to bed. If so, you'll have to learn to cook (good grandmother, I have to learn, you win) but I prefer to touch it because I live alone and need it urgently, so I do not like or little.
What most amazes me is that there are still people of my generation to think something like my grandmother. Do they not have seen hundreds of cases that are like my mom?. One of my friends told me that I was very close to the spinster's profile in the future by thinking that way. Well, she was a Sunday I was ironing his shirt and cooked boyfriend because the poor were hungry and tired. (?)
it do not mean to make a sexist discussion of the case or anything, I am no feminist nor of those who goes around proclaiming the machismo of society and blah blah blah. I just think being a kind of woman which are not covered in the slightest that having a home involves dedicating a lifetime. In some part this antipathy break certain patterns Romantics of my grandma, but I do not think any of his granddaughters will abide by such advice to follow in the footsteps of our mothers, and ignore their experiences and what they tried to instil in order not to make their same mistakes.
Well, now we started whining, but every time I realize that I for these things in the house I really do not work! Of God, is it rather that I'll be useless spinster? Guardespaldas bahhh!
dawn and see ....
